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Unity with Community

Diversion is breakable where unity is most favorable.

The world as we know it was not built alone. Our communities were not singularly formed either. Our lives that we have created continue to grow through our relationships, our resources, and connectivity. Our circle comes back to the community in which we ultimately immerse ourselves. When you look at all that is around you, far and wide, it is the beautiful diversity that we grow open handedly rather remain idle separately.

Where we all individually differ in many aspects of our being, our common grievances surround the continuous diversion that we face. Where many find their immediate action to march in madness, we instead should cross the bridge in a harmonious unity. Your inner being is just as important as the outer. All levels should be protected. Sadness and anger are normal emotional responses when we do not feel protected. However, hatred and acts of this, and with the intent to harm others, is not. It may take one person to break peace in a community, but it takes a community to also help one another. When peace is broken, we must not follow the effect, but go back to the state of cause and do what we can at that point to move towards a more positive outcome. Uplift one another, love, listen, and remind one another why what brought us together in the first place.

In my community, I never knew a stranger. I never felt disconnected from the rest of the world either, as I was always surrounded by many different faces, language, and the beauty that each possessed and selflessly shared. The experiences and stories I have learned and the greatest bonds ever achieved. I never perceived differently, nor heard a voice I found unfamiliar. Although not one person I know looks like me, was raised like me, spoke like me, or has ever walked like me, though we walk together with open hands to uplift one another in case we come across a bump in the trail. Guiding one another in case one may get lost. Laughing and smiling while you make life long memories and relationships. Having a heart that is full because you have joy and love that surrounds you. Love is abstract, and our judgements perhapss should be much more as well.

If I put everyone I know in a room, I will see and hear a multitude of difference, but we all share the same smile and open heart. We each learn from eachother on a broader perspective. I have learned and experienced more out of my lifetime than I could ever afford to travel alone to do otherwise. Love and understand what community truly is. On a simple level it is a population of various individuals whom live in a common place within a large society. A fellowship as a result of sharing interests, and goals. On a intrapersonal level, community goes beyond in making others feel welcome, feeling safe, and caring for others where possible. Reaching out to others not only helps them and your community, but it helps you to gain a bigger understanding as well. We were not born into this world so with the purpose to harm, but we are here to rejoice and grow to live in a way of our found purpose, most importantly helping each other reach that. We each hold individual tools. Some where we lack but can provide to others where they too are able to reciprocate. Our life is given for opportunity to take away from ourselves or any one else. Knowledge is key. We cannot have it all, but we can selflessly share with one another for the best of intention and the betterment to all.

Just remember when you have been at your best and have been at the lowest, it is not about one culture, race,religion, or gender that makes a difference in your aid. I know I can speak for myself that it is an international love that has been by my side as well as my family. An individuals character speaks and gives much more volume than the outer label others may have placed. Embrace and cultivate the differences as a progressive tool to unite in growth, wellness, education, and a greater strength. Through unity we all stand together and none fall short. Hatred is never the norm and Love should be available by the masses, not a commodity. Aren’t we all tired of the earthquakes in our communities? Pain and suffering shouldn’t be a chosen way to feel or project upon others. We do not gain but ultimately lose everything from this. Otherwise it is a complete waste of our precious life, our world that is one of a kind in itself. Uplift yourself while doing the same with and for others for much more of the fulfilled life we all desire.

Unity with Community, it’s that simple.

 

-Amanda Marie Wilkinson

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Go in Educated and come out Strong- Voting with a purpose!

Happy Friday Everyone! Whew after a long and busy week, It is finally here! I hope you have found yourself knowing that you have done wondrous things thus far. No matter any pitfalls or cracks that you have stepped in on the ground, at the end of the day, you know you have made a difference at the least.

As a parent, I pat myself on the back for getting my kid to school before the bell. After a long day running like a wild chicken, I am there to help make a school project while I am nodding off every so seldom at the kitchen table. However, on days like today, not only do I make life work, I manage to end it with a beautiful sense of strength, purpose, unity, and a smile. Today, I managed to vote early, rather than in the brink of the process.

One of the greatest advantages of doing so, is that you have more opportunity before to meet with those candidates and understand who they are but most importantly how they understand you! After all, these candidates are there with a purpose to serve perhaps based on their personal experiences. Either way, they go in with a mission, but your presence and voice is more powerful when heard. Your voice is the fuel that keeps their engines running and the ability to keep working. You are a direct connection and resource to them, just as much as they are to you. Your voice is much more amplified when these candidates are able to accurately and securely get down to the source of their mission, ultimately their elected jobs. Their jobs are given by voters, YOU!

I am going to be honest with you, majority of time, I do not have the time to watch television. Therefore, it is not my influence with any decision I make. As for social media, I skip directly over those posts when it comes to public opinion to agree or disagree with one another, especially when it comes to their chosen political party. I do not count on the masses to give me opinion, but I count on myself to seek resources and when the opportunity gives, go to the direct source to educate myself and determine where my personal vote will better serve my mission, purpose, future, and my family. I could never walk up to a stranger, or even my best friend and tell them who to vote for. AS long as they are voting with Education behind them and a fulfilled purpose, then I am just as happy for them as I am myself.  I am a strong advocator for myself as well as the general community in areas that I personally can relate and help through my experiences. Everyone has a different walk of life and so therefore their individual decisions will bring individual outcomes. Never lose sight in what you believe in and what brings you peace. Most importantly do not let anything misguide or shift your ability to stand straight for what is important for you.

Before the polls, take the time to research those who may be running for a specific office and reach out to them directly. Let them know that you are interested in knowing more about their platform for the educated intent of voting. These individuals are happy to take their time in meeting with you.Take this time to share with them your personal experiences and what is important to you. Just as it is important for them to receive your vote, it is a reciprocal benefit for them to also know and understand how they can stay relevant in support and involvement with individuals and families in their community. Ultimately, to better serve through their work. Your voice is just as big as the jobs that you support. Those jobs in return are there to support you, your family, and your community!

Election time should not be a time to defy one another, but a greater time to unite and connect with one another. Go in educated, with a purpose and come out stronger as a community. I am an individual who has much perspective on different views based on personal experience. Through these experiences, I have learned that I cannot pay, wait, or expect someone else to advocate for me, my future, or my family in a way that I could. However, I can research and educate myself based on resources that are publicly provided to best understand the process I need to take in order to successfully get to where I need to go.

Without education, your voice has no power. It is crucial to accurately know how you can better serve yourself. At the end of the day, it is obligatory right. Your voice is just as powerful as the job it gives. It is crucial to educate yourself and become well informed in your understanding on how YOUR rightful made choice impacts you and your family’s future. Do not dive into the masses for personally irrelevant made opinions,  because you are only creating the outcome that will go against you. Go directly to the source to get the answers you need to make the change that you want. Just like anything else in life, you can’t worry about anyone else if you can’t take care of yourself. Go educate yourself and get connected. How you are able to make a slight change for yourself, will ultimately make a larger change for community. Make your educated decision count!

#UnitywithCommunity

I wish everyone happy voting and a beautiful weekend!

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Lesser of the Masses- Letting go of the crowd

The crowd is not that to be pleased, but stay focused on the audience that comes to support you.

People are quick to judge you at your worst and even at your best. I have lived walking on eggshells because of my fear of literal judgement and I still got fucked over many times over when you are doing everything to everyone else “right”. Define what is right in the first place. Behind every great person is a greater story.. or two. Our experiences is what drives us further to accomplishing gain where we want to make up for all that we have lost. Whether it was time, money, grief, . It is what gives us the fuel to drive. It is what brings us to higher levels of thinking and ultimately reaching heights we can’t explain otherwise. I have made a lifetime of sacrifice and was not unhappy and I would rather be happy so I continue to make greater sacrifices to reach that level. So when someone judges you for doing better, being a better version of you, living your best life the very best way you can with exactly what you have, there is no wrong in that and you should realize that once you start living your victory, you will have all that fulfills you. Otherwise you will remain searching to replace the fear that others have you suffering and sacrificing your life.

Forget the excuses that you have given yourself, but never forget the excuses that others have given to you. Remember the “That’s the most ridiculous idea I have ever heard”,. Remember the “You would never be good at that”. Remember “You will be nothing”. Remember “You will never be normal again”. Remember “You are a failure” Remember “ If it were not for me you would have nothing”- this one is important, why? Because When you look back at all that you walked away from to go do and be you, you can humbly smile, fuck it, laugh your ass off at the bloated sacks of shits that gave you enough stink to move forward. After all, what the hell do they know? Are they going to live your life for you? Well it may not be a bad idea to go on celebrity wife swap or here’s a new one, parent swaps! Wouldn’t that be something? Oh the many days I would have loved to apply. Many would not be able to handle my juggles, and many cannot handle yours either. As a parent, you lose work or miss an exam at school, one you couldn’t take because well you had to stay home with your child on the days she was sick, or better yet no child care at all. Having three nannies would have been great just so I could get through a day of work, exams, presentations, meetings, and…………… without a vomiting child on board. True story! Majority of time I had absolute no choice but to bring a vomiting or feverish child with me to work and school. Those who cannot relate have nothing else to say. So go ahead and let them judge you, who cares? You shouldn’t!

 

Finding your happiness is not the hardest challenge in life, it is maintaining a connection with all of whom may not see through your perspective, understand your truth, supporting all that brings you pure joy, or can undoubtedly support you in the hours of silence. It is through others fear, ignorance, narrow, or misunderstood minds that will leave you lonely, if you allow this to be your company. Those who walk and turn away have done you a favor. These areas of your life will open up and make room for your greatest gain. Just keep on going because you are your greatest resource and the most true of them all. At the end of the day, it is your life, you own it. Therefore, why restrict yourself to all that you are capable of doing. You were born with gifts. Some of the finest tools that differentiate yourself like no other. Life brings you experiences that help you shape and refine those skills. Many keep closed in a 4 dimension life called a box. Don’t allow others contain you and shield away from your potential. Go out every day and be Great!

Lesser of the masses is less of the pressure. Pressure to conform to others rather always performing at who you are 100 percent. You can’t be your best self if you are not living yourself and this means letting go of all that is not allowing you to do so. Not everyone will believe in who you are and there is nothing that will ever change that. Enjoy exploring and understanding who you are at a full tank and take yourself to all of the places you want to go. Those who support you will hop on board and help you create the best of times in this journey called life. If you tag along the negative, it doesn’t matter if you are in the most beautiful place in your life, you will not be able to enjoy it. Let go of the threats that have you in fear of being everyone else perfect, but live in the standards of yourself and you will attract those who live in the same as you! Along the way, having your greatest fans! Ride above the clouds and keep closer to the sun!

 

-Amanda Marie Wilkinson

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Hello Everyone!

Before I start, I will like to admit that this is my first ever blog post! I wouldn’t call myself a blogger, but I am a writer, and well many things- just like you!

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I can relate to you and maybe 2 to 3 other generations. Some can call me a walking case study, and I can agree. However, I am a daughter, a baby mama, a student(x4), film work, I can sell you a house, I can save your life, a traveler, an ex, a patient… the list goes on. I have lived lots of life and experiences, some of which you can’t make up haha So I take these WTF experiences and like to share any resources I can with you! I have learned lessons the hard way (the best way)- like the modern woman Junglebook. If only I knew what I know now.. Well now I do and for those who don’t, I am happy to laugh, cry, love, share, and get pissed with you! I have survived through the works of a village and we know it takes one to do so sometimes.

Here we are as a community to get through the best and the OMG, WTF, Insert emojis- time! Most importantly, I need to hear from you since technically speaking we are only technical here ;)Otherwise It would be like me talking to myself, and I already do that enough around here. Cheers! #unitywithcommunity

-Amanda Marie Wilkinson

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