All of your experiences, whether learned or modeled, are the ingredients that were purely given to you for the creation and development of not only your person but also to live out your greatest passions. Every step that you take is a trial and perhaps there will be error. This error should never be misconstrued as a fail towards your original purpose, but a way to re-evaluate the idea or situation to improve or perhaps even simplify the process. Better constructing your foundation and having that experience to build stronger with every step and level along the way.
Take your experiences as a greater practice each and everyday. Those moments where you feel defeated, lost, or uncertain, make sure they are not emotions towards what you cannot control. In this circumstance, the best for you is simply reflecting on what you can control and taking the necessary steps towards the direction in which you were headed in the first place. THe important thing is not to let unfiltered blocks keep you from going. You can’t control the acts of others, the unruly factors of life that get thrown in from time to time, but what you can control is your perception and reaction. In fact, the unrully factors that you may perceive as such, may not be anything more than a rightful answer. You can always change the unexpected by simply controlling you. All of any potential factor otherwise cannot control you. Always remember that. With each decision, thought, or step that you make, is a different outcome. Embrace what is given even when you do not ask for it. Sometimes these are gifts that life gives you. Simply accept and be thankful.
Failure is only a perception. It is a senseless feeling and block towards everything that you are and all of your potential. ELiminate these senseless factors, clean up the path in which you walk, and most importantly clean out your negative inbox which may be overfull in you having the capability in receiving the positive.
Evolve by experimenting and take note of all of your trials, successes, and errors. This is you perfecting your craft everytime. Pivoting your ideas is how you grow. THere is no such thing as failure, it is a falsified feeling of the lack of self fulfillment. An abstract way of defining something that you are not necessarily capabable of grasping. Don’t lose sense of your original self because one aspect didn’t turn out as you invisioned. Pivoting is learning what works, what may not be right for you and is the blessing to show you this throughout your journey, no matter what life options you. Afterall, each choice you make provides different passageways to a different path. This is why it is important to stay true to your originality. No need to change your focus everytime something doesn’t work, but let your passions become your greatest obsession. Always keeping your focus and originality while improving and growing. Be thankful for the blessed mishaps, for they are not there to fail you, but propel you.
I have come to very honest terms with myself in the many and continuous moments of my personal growth and journey. Those moments I was frustrated and too stubborn to stop forcing a square into a circle, and that energy blocking my clarity and truth that I was not even working wih a suare in the first place. It was that block that took over the truth of the matter. Once I was able to step out of the space and re- evaluate the place that I was in, I was able to instantly see how it was not the right direction of where I was actually trying to go. However, with these experiences down a wrong turn, I learned of new paths and understood where they could lead me. Leading me to clearer decisions and being familiar with something new that I would be able to instantly recognize in my future as a either a tool, or a flag. Always be thankful for each one. Don’t resist what is presented in front of you. Don’t try to change something into what isn’t and can never be. Just take it for truth and make the best decision to take the tools you need to keep going. Whether a tool or a flag, they are both useful. They both are helpful in giving you two different paths, two different choices. Be honest, stay original, and stay clear in the choice that is ultimately yours. Never change your original answer, but adapt in the growth in which your education will bring you. Think about all of the times that you said to yourself “I wish I had someone to tell me this”… Well you always did. Instead of looking for a false confirmation based on you trying to remold your circumstances. Listen to the truth that is within you and the tools that that truth is attracting to present to you. Only developing your true and best self. You are your only source towards your full being. Nothing else can speak for you or see you as your whole self. You are your solution. Tou are your being. You are your greatest obsession. Never lose yourself, but continue to evolve to be your best self. You are not the problem, but your best solution. Live and share passionately!
-Amanda Marie Wilkinson
Unity With Community 