When it comes to the development and growth of our person and for the remainder of our life, we first analyze our needs and desires and create steps to getting there, one goal at a time. Sometimes we find it easier to say what we want rather than obtaining it. Life comes in, sacrifices are made, time allows, and all outsourced factors roll in and can often be out of our control. However, for those things that we can anticipate and manage, you can’t lose sight on the mark in which you are and let something or someone else stand in your way of that.
What is set in your mind, will always lead your way. Life has a great way of doing this for us, as long as you remain balanced and centered towards the very thing that you need and want. I have found myself slowly losing what I thought I wanted just because I had other focuses. This can be a good outcome if you perhaps are benefited from the very thing that may get wiped away from the path. However, it becomes a negative in your life if you are not really focused on one or a couple of goals, but are unbalanced and lost in any amount of chaos that results in nothing, and you losing everything around your wants and needs in the meantime. This is also very true if you are taking care of others before taking care of yourself. I always have said: “Don’t give more or less than what you receive from others”. Not that you nor I expect anything in return from our support to others, however, when you are building up towards all that is lifting you, is the support reciprocated where it could be?
These are I have learned a couple of times. It is easy to just want around feeling the need to work work work and harder for several passions all at the same time. Even as independent and motivated we are, it is still very difficult to sufficiently manage at a given time. Eventually you will start to seeing that those things may not even work out as planned or not at all. Leaving you with the WTF is happening right now. The answer is nothing! When it comes to spending your assets to giving to others: monetarily, mentally, emotionally, physically; where are those people after? Love and charity are a great thing when you give where you can. We can’t expect others to have the same desire to give back to you. Some will not if there is no benefit to them. Others will because they believe in you. Decipher the thing and the person who will bring light your well being and continue to support and shine together.
Life has its way of designating roles that are pertinent to your plan. Stick with what is given and you will see the same results that you first saw when you started. Life can provide our own savings plan that is uniquely stated by our needs and desires, though not one will be preferred by everyone. This is ok, as your individual plan is made by you and for your continuous growth. Never compromise your personal wealth for anyone or anything that is a risk to the build of your future. Life savings are made to grow, not deplete.
-Amanda Marie Wilkinson
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